Determining God’s Will: When is it time to “move”?
If you are like me, you have probably asked and continue to ask the question “What is God’s will for my life?” In fact, I am of the opinion that every disciple of Christ should ask this question modeled after the apostle Paul’s encouragement in Philippians 3:12, To lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has laid hold of us. And laying hold of where God would have you to go requires an understanding, a discernment of when is it time to move like Abraham did in Genesis 12:1.
Most certainly, we ask this question through prayer, through Godly counsel and perhaps searching through the myriad of books written on the subject. So my purpose here is not rehash what others have already written but to provide my perspective through a personal anecdote and to ask you, the reader, how do you determine God’s will?
For 5 years, I was intricately involved with a ministry that was relatively new. Now I had come to this ministry, from a much larger well established ministry with a strong conviction that this was where God wanted me to be at that time. But a couple of years ago, I began to be confronted with some difficulties regarding biblical interpretation, doctrinal misalignment and principles rooted in extra-biblical concepts. My pastor was convinced that for where that church was going, I was supposed to be a part of it. In fact, there had been on some occasions, a generic public proclamation from the pulpit that if God had called you there and you leave before fulfilling what God had called you to do, you would be in disobedience and would not fulfill God’s plan. But as my discomfort grew, I was not so sure that staying was in my best interest. So I left.
After much prayer and research, I landed at a fantastic church, which provided much spiritual nourishment, friendly support and biblical teaching grounded in solid bible study methods. Although this church was quite different than my previous experience in that it was non-charismatic, I liken the transition to finding a spring well after traveling through a hot desert. The long and short of it is that this shift resulted in path I am now taking to seminary.
I recently had a very pleasant chat with my former pastor’s wife. And although it was not spoken, I could not help but wonder if she and my former pastor suppose that somehow I have missed the will of God for my life. When I consider my current direction a result of merging life experiences, spiritual gifting, ministry passions and interest towards helping others, I think of grain scattered on the table being scooped together over time and funneled into a single point. And that single point carries with it a strong conviction of God directing my steps towards seminary. Ultimately, I do not believe that I have missed God’s Will.
So I share this personal story not to criticize my former ministry for I applaud those that will march forward under divine directives to reach others with the good news of Jesus Christ. And while the question of discovering God’s Will has been framed in the context of my personal story, the broader application entails discovering your next steps as you ask the question of what is God’s Will for your life. Through my journey, I have discovered some key criteria that I would like to share for your consideration.
1) God’s Will won’t contradict His Word: I have heard this in many a sermon and would wholeheartedly concur, especially related to very obvious contradictions such as marrying an unbeliever or engaging in activity that the bible clearly outlines as wrong.
But another consideration, I believe, involves the faithfulness of our places of fellowship. Now I am not suggesting for an overcritical and carnal evaluation of what you don’t like about your church. There have been far too many church splits and personal disruptions over what amounted to be differences of personal preferences, interests and comfort. No church is perfect because it is filled with and run by imperfect people. Nor am I suggesting that you leave the minute you hear something you don’t like. It could just be the Holy Spirit convicting you of sin in your life.
But I am suggesting by faithfulness, a careful consideration of how our local assemblies align with biblical mandates regarding their purpose and function. And these would include:
- Sound teaching of Christian doctrine
- Evangelism
- Prayer
- Loving fellowship
- Pastoral care for the needs of the flock
And the purpose is so we will grow, mature and become equipped to lead others. Consider Ephesians 4:11-16 and 2 Peter 3:18. So if any of the above components are missing or skewed or if you are encountering friction in ministry to the extent that learning and ultimately growth is stunted, I believe contradict God’s Word.
2) God’s Will will most likely develop and utilize our spiritual gifts. We have been given spiritual gifts for the edification of the body (see Romans 12:4-8; 1 Corinthians 12)
1 Peter 4:10 says, “As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.”
God gives us gifts to use and there should be graduating of scope and frequency as these gifts develop. This doesn’t mean that we should expect promotions and platforms at every turn. God still does tests and train our ability to be faithful and submit to authority. But there should be an increased honing of these gifts that translate into making tangible impacts in the lives of others. So wherever He takes us should involve this increase.
And by the way, being a musician is not a gift - it is a talent. If you are involved in music ministry at some point and that direction shifts, it is no indication of missing His will (ok, that one is very personal)
3) God’s Will will ultimately bear fruit: We were once dead trees but made alive at conversion (Ephesians 2:1). At the point of salvation, spiritual renewal begins the process of producing fruit reflective of that renewal including God’s intention for our lives. Consider Ephesians 2:10:
“For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them”.
Wherever God is leading us should result in the fruit of His “good works”, which is compatible with the utilization of our spiritual gifts and yields a positive increase in how we are impacting lives for Christ.
4) God’s Will may involve personal discomfort: Sometimes following God will take us to hard places. I admit, it was not easy leaving my former ministry. But I am mindful of God’s call to Abraham to leave the place of his birth, and undoubtedly, his comfort. And when we sense we are being led away from somewhere and more specifically, to somewhere, it begs the question of who do we need to please, God, others or ourselves.
5) God’s Will may not be immediately understood: In my case, I admit I was puzzled for awhile. If God had called me to this ministry, why then should I be leaving? What’s worse is that I had stepped down from ministry and it was during the course of that hiatus that I began to wrestle with differences. So the philosophy was that I should be restored to that position before leaving. But I knew that I had to leave. I did not get it at the time, but I also could not ignore the growing unsettlement.
I think it is unwise to limit God or think we have figured out how He does things based on our man-made formulas.
Isaiah 55:8-9: “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are My ways your ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.”
6)_No one can really determine God’s Will for you: People mean well and may even have definite ideas about what you should be doing. But I believe that discovering God’s will is born of a strong conviction brought on by the Spirit that lives within us.
1 Peter 2:5 says, “you also, as living stones, are being built up as a spiritual house for a holy priesthood, to offer up spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.
Believers are not responsible to pastor, mother, father, friend or foe. Their priesthood before God makes them accountable to God for every step they take. And those steps should be taken with much prayer, much humility and much surrendering. When we do this, I believe most certainly He will lead us to the place we need to go.
Consider what Paul says in Philippians 2:12-13:
“So then, my beloved, just as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your salvation with fear and trembling; for it is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for His good pleasure”.
These considerations are based on my personal journey. Now, I ask you how do you determine God’s will for you life?
Great Lisa,
I have you up as an RSS feed at the P&P blog. http://www.reclaimingthemind.org/blogs/wpmu-feed/
That is the feed for the RMM blogging community.
Every time you post a post it will show up immediately.
Comment by michaelp — May 14, 2008 @ 2:38 pm
Great post Lisa, glad you joined in with the community blogging, hope you keep posting!
I think that discovering the will of God for your life is a very personal thing. And I think it helps if we try not to think of it so much as waiting until God tells us what to do, but as a journey where we have to make our own decisions. Whenever I read the bible I always see people taking their own initiative, being guided by principles. It’s only when God wants something very specific and important or when He wants people to do something they probably never thought of doing before that He miraculously intervenes.
As an English pastor once said to me, ‘don’t wait till you see angels river-dancing on the duvet before you do something for God, figure out what you can do, how you can serve, and what abilities you have.’
- Ben
Comment by ben hind — May 14, 2008 @ 4:36 pm